THE NATIVE GEMINI AND HIS LOVE LIFE 

For Gemini natives, sexuality and love are necessary because they ensure the sensation of balance and of fulfilment. If the partner of the native tries to dominate the life of the couple, the native does not feel happy about that. But, if he dominates, he considers life is worth living and he will search for a partner permanently. For that reason, the native might look unreliable, a real double-faced person. This is the main flaw of the native as far as romantic life is concerned. He is like a butterfly flowing from one flower to another. 

If, at a certain point, he finds his real partner, he will not be restless any longer. He will feel happy till (because of his specific dynamics) he gets bored and starts searching again. At a certain point, the search will become a real goal, a real pleasure. Not the goal itself, but the path to fulfil it will satisfy a native Gemini. And only then, real problems will begin.

We cannot say that his love is deep, even if he finds a partner. We will not have too often the opportunity to see a native in love head over heels and losing his head for that, because he is too rational. He loves someone because he has reasons to do so... 

Mercury, the ruler of the sign, influences his romantic life a lot. He will always analyse rationally and complete the relationship with the one he loves. When he is not certain of its meaning, he will begin to talk about the story of his life or about his romantic affairs but only to ask for advice, to see the reaction of the listener and to draw some conclusions: if he had done well or not. If the other one's reactions are contradictory, he will totally ignore them. 

Thus, the native may be blamed for being indiscrete. He will reveal his secrets in public, he will "make a fuss about that" in order to draw the attention on him. Do not try to reveal your most intimate secrets because he will reveal them to other people, judge you and "destroy" you and hurt your feelings. 

Therefore, he is a sophisticated person which knows how to provide you with pleasant, romantic, and interesting moments. Because he is aware of his value, he will find values in other people and know how to use them to make you feel good. Certain people could consider it to be his "charm" which is specific when trying to "conquer" someone. But when a native is honest, you will be extremely happy.